this annoying little slice of pop psychology will get you thinking, though perhaps not in the direction the author of it would expect
http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=9156858
have a quick read of the "discuss this issue here" link
our society is rotting and our minds are caving in on themselves, men
and women are losing their psychological sovereignty...
"we're all doomed" , etc