Adamantium
aye this is a humdinger of a question
problems of too much dialogue
1. training time is usually limited and precious- if you get your mates there in the gym padded up and ready to go and you've got say 60 minutes of training time, I would say make that as physical intensive as possible to get maximimum return on investment
2. a shouting match isnt a fight and a fight isnt a shouting match
this is a bit like the "showers dont stab and stabbers dont show" maxim with the knife (its a guide not literal truth before anyone gets silly with it
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if someone is giving you verbals that is verbal assault, when they STEP TOWARDS YOU HANDS RAISED and shouting angrily that is ALWAYS to be taken to be the beginning of a physical assault - at least that is how I drill for it, no fokkker is stepping into my space making threats with their hands up, they may as well have already punched me becuase god knows I've made my decision to hit them and right soon!
do you run scenarios where you let the guy walk into you pushing you and you walk backwards about 20 paces saying over and over again " i dont want any trouble"...? because if you are what you are doing might be the most legally justifiable option but its not what makes you
safestgo and look at that spanish metro stabbing knife video in the general section - how quickly can a push in the chest and an eyeball to eyeball headpeck "ego battle" become a fatal stab?
as quickly as you can raise your hand, not two seconds, not even a second, FRACTIONS of a second to a fatal wound. That noone here could of blocked/trapped/or kebabed. Sobering thought.
Anyone here with a bit of training could of preempted it though.
Back to the drill
Someone walking TOWARDS you shouting and aggressively gesturing? you have a strong case for justifiable force if you preemptively strike them. (once or twice, enough to put them down, without the riverdance on the head joe pesci routine) Why? You have reason to believe (and witnesses will back this) that youre in imminent danger.
This isnt a hardline "rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6" mindset. What do the police ask you and witnesses after a fight? Who approached who?
The kid who glassed me 10 years ago got sent down simply because the DJ had seen him step up to me, rather than the other way round. So his case of "I hit him in self defence and forgot I had a glass in my hand" didnt work. Who is moving towards whom is important.
If a chap is moving towards you, he is likely to be percieved as the aggressor, especially when you have your hands up in what looks like a placatory stance.
Back to the drill
You dont want to train to have a really "long fuse". Which means continuing the drill in "verbal mode" when it has long since been overdue for you to "flick the switch"
Train for a short fuse-
One way you could do it is, say something simple "stay there" or "hands down" as you get ready to bang them (its on, its likely, get ready for it), then when their FEET move towards you bang them- keep it simple; otherwise you are letting them move into a range that is EASIER for them to steal it on you and HARDER for you to use your hands for a P.S.
My ideal range for a P.S. is just beyond the length of my arm so I can step into it, well you wont get that in a night club, kebab shop, train... so be looking to create,maintain and keep as much space as possible.
Dont backpeddal whilst allowing them to repeatedly showve your chest, what do you think is going to happen next? they will just go "ok fair enough" and walk away? you are, by doing nothin, feeding their confidence and allowing them to ramp up thier state high enouhg to get the bottle to hit you.
Pre empt. Pre empt. Pre empt.
Im a shit with drills like this, I dont even let people get started and Ive tonked them mid sentence.
"Hey I hadnt even started yet" sulkily readjusts helmet
"Yeah well I had"
Why? Because I know from bitter experience, the longer a scenario goes on for the more in favour it is for them, they are choosing the range, the territory and the time the violence whill occur whilst giving themselves a chance to "access state". No thanks. I dont think so!
Look at the "fieryness" (real word?) of lads who get into scraps all the time, go out in rough industrial towns and watch at kickout time how fast it can go off. They very rarely do the posture, preamble and chest shovy thing anymore!
"hey mate what you lookin at?"
"what? you want some do ya?!"
Like cartoons of 80's cockney holligans.
I think these are outmoded models of anti social violence- ok, not to say they dont still happen, of course they do- but its all a bit 80/90's that now.
People will just fucking pounce on you now, fill you in, film it on their mobiles and it'll be up on youtube before you get out of hospital.
At a recent seminar up in Sheffield, the lads where joking that "there is no bluddy prefight phase in t' Sheffield" because fights can just
go very quick with little warning.
AND ITS THOSE ONES you want to train for, the really dangerous ones kick off from nowhere, so spend time drilling for them. Not the old "what you looking at- you want a go?" routine which really should be looking like this:
aggressor- "what you looking at?"
practitioner- pretends not to hear, walks swiftly in opposite direction as though suddenly rememberin he has left the oven on and exits stage left
Those are two points off the top of my head.
Here is a good question to ask though: Adamantium, would you say these drills you are currently doing are making you significantly more confident or not really?