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PostSubject: Security at my friends party. Tips thnx.   Security at my friends party. Tips thnx. EmptyFri Apr 10, 2009 1:00 pm

So my friend (a girl) is having a big party tonight. Im in charge of just making sure that nothing gets stolen and that no one gets in who is not on the list. Last time she had a party, 2 guys (I know them by name) came in and and broke stuff and made a mess.
Anyways im am supposed to keep the 2 (fairly short) guys and there friends out of the house, but ive heard that they wont go down without a fight.
Ive wathched almost all the streetfightsecret vids on youtube and learned something. But are there any psycological tricks I can play on these guys to avoid a fight.
Me and my friend know basic boxing and krav maga also.
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PostSubject: Re: Security at my friends party. Tips thnx.   Security at my friends party. Tips thnx. EmptyFri Apr 10, 2009 1:29 pm

i'll be honest mate,
off the back it doesn't sound that promising, unless there's something
i don't understand. and maybe there's too much i don't understand.

Richie knows many de-escalation things...i can only add that the mind
is the most powerful tool. set their's up to work against them. when i've
done security, i always added stupid grins (counter intuitive stuff) as if
knowing some impending thing that another person did not. kind of wrote
the script as if to say,
"nothing personal mate, i don't have a problem...i'm just giving you a
heads-up; if you want to ignore it--god bless and good luck" laughter not
withstanding.

"i'm just saying...tonight's not the night...trust me" kind of thing.

i was a bit psyched out by a return problem when i did security. and i had a
conversation like this with the guy who started wanting to rub his continual
presence in my face [on a bus]. my response put him off balance. i sort of said, "good
for you mate...but something's in the works now and if you're still game, good
luck with that...more power to you" followed by shaking my head and sort of
smiling as if picturing something. it was the last we had to deal with him, and
he was sort of a big problem.


can't say it will work, but that sort of counter intuitive stuff [less said the better]
puts people off their game and in the realm of rational and irrational thoughts. and
out of the sure-of-themselves and impulsive state.

if you can fook with someone's head, by all means--have an orgy with it, but don't
use machismo, it can backfire--use twisted humor.
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PostSubject: Re: Security at my friends party. Tips thnx.   Security at my friends party. Tips thnx. EmptyFri Apr 10, 2009 8:00 pm

Quote :
if you can fook with someone's head, by all means--have an orgy with it, but don't
use machismo, it can backfire--use twisted humor.

Its not an easy thing to understand, but if you can grasp it Russ has given you the best answer possible I think Joonas - psychology/ posturing will only get you so far, shirk the role of unofficial party "bouncer" its a ridiculous notion and you are setting yourself up for trouble- drink, have fun, dont look for trouble but be there if it goes off with everybody else.

...and dont stick your chest out mate Wink
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