Revenge...

Sorry for my bad english, but i am not a native speaker

My problem is that i become feared of fights because always when i fight against somebody and i kick his ass i can be shure to meet him some day again in a disco with his friends or even a knife. (I'am living in a city with only 150 000 inhabitants). I even canceled some partys because somebody announced that he wants to take revange on me. And I am not the person who calls his friends to meet for a fight...

Do u have any suggestions how to behave after a fight to avoid this anger?



Thanks!

find another disco.

I live in a town of around 45,000 and it's still easy enough to avoid trouble spots. In a city three times bigger there must be a decent choice of watering holes.

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Great advice Sergei and AdamM.

Avoid potential trouble spots as much as you can, and be sure to keep your awareness level up when going out.

why thank you

From 16 to about 30 I had a regular pub.
It was what you might call a rough pub. Dark, smokey, rock/metal playing and some seriously handy guys drinking there. However, I felt it was relatively safe. The Landlords were brothers, one an ex-RAF MP and the other an ex-Moss Side (very rough part of Manchester for non-brits) copper. They kept the house in order. In 14 years I was rarely in anything near a sticky situation.

Over that time it was when I got talked into going round the smarter town bars and nightclubs that I was more likely to get into trouble. Being in supposedly respectable establishments having to look out for pissed up teenagers incase they were eyeing you up to push a pint glass in your face or jump on your back in the takeaway next door.

When you are drinking there's a serious deminishment in your self protection skills so I believe it's your obligation to only do it in places you know you are relatively safe.