ARGHH!!! Crashed and Burned :-( Sob..

So Richie,, been saying a ridiculous belief in the mirror 10x a day inspired by you when you were struggling with chatting up attractive women back in the day and trying to install this ridiculous but functional belief into the old unconscious "Women, secretly like me and find me attractive, when they give a negative reaction ( like a rolling her eyes, looking away, and smirking) they are really flirting with me and "playing hard to get" and therefore functionally misinterpret negative rejections."

....Also been listening to Verbal conflict and trying to translate the concepts there to chatting up women
1) moral/social right to talk to a woman
2) Dettachment of outcome/
3)Fear of Humialiation
4)Don't take things personally She doesn't know you, she's rejecting her projection of you
5)Generate a lawyer persona or someone who has an appropriate belief system ,like jack Sparrow, who has the"Women, secretly like me and find me attractive, when they give a negative reaction ( like a rolling her eyes, looking away, and smirking) they are really flirting with me and "playing hard to get" and therefore functionally misinterpret negative rejections.

ARGHH!! Crash and Burned Richie,

Help, I think that it would be a great idea if you used that ridiculous belief about "all women secretly want you and are really fllirting with you when they "give you the cold shoulder, ignore you, roll their eyes" and do your nlp mojo guided hypnosis onto a CD....

Even though your running primary a RBSD biz, this post gave me something to think about and I hope gives everyone pause too...

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Reality should have a way of making us rethink our stances at times and maybe opt for better options that will work in favor of us... killing a man even in self defense no matter how justified in our minds will still fuck up your life one way or another...

...tough choices to be faced with but I suggest people rethink their positions perhaps of carrying and using as freely as they discuss it on forums, not saying not too, just wondering if it is indeed the best possible solution to such outcomes or maybe we should be concentrating more on figuring out why the hell we (as regular civilians, not referring to people who's jobs selflessly puts them in harms way to protect others either) would ever have to come to a point in our lives where we are stabbing or cutting another human being's flesh open with a sharp blade....

Food for thought nothing more... feel free to disagree and argue for your rights to kill another man in slef defense all you want and then in the same argument tell me as a regular civilian how many times it's happened to you, your family or anyone you know for that matter.

And if it so happens that you do have one or two examples of people you know, I'd like you to compare that number to that of the people you know, yes, all of them and then also let us know the percentage ratio compared to lets say, how many of those same people have failed relationships, mediocre health, poor diets, smoke, drink, gamble, communication problems, dead end jobs etc. etc. etc. and then... compare how much time is spent worrying about getting jumped by a few strangers with blades in the street compared to worrying about actually fixing and repairing the real issues that are subtly and ever so slowly yet evenly paced destroying our daily lives....

Please don't get me wrong, the points are all valid and I couldn't agree with them more however, my point of contention is the time spent on the things that will probably rarely if ever happen compared to time spent on things that are actually happening as we speak and type this that no one ever really takes a look at. That's all I'm saying, please don't take this out of proportion and turn it into Rich doesn't believe in self defense anymore, this is not the case at all.... Like stated in my Q&A section, I believe that self defense should begin with protecting ourselves from ourselves as no one seems to damage us more.... THEN or at the very least, at the same time also train for the big bad criminals out there lurking in the shadows but freakin prioritize ourselves a little and re-evaluate what it is that is truly important for ourselves.
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Sincerely,
Rich

later Richie
Warren

Warren, mate

your confusing the concepts, stand by mate I am going to put something together for you

also saying something you fudamentally dont beleive in a mirror 10 times a day aint going to do it lar! its a waste of time

relax

think about hurting people and stuff for a while, go and train, shred some folk forget about birds for a bit mate

Hey there richie ,



"also saying something you fudamentally dont beleive in a mirror 10 times a day aint going to do it lar! its a waste of time"

Yeah Richie, like you say in your cds, one has to believe something unconsciously ie.X belief has to be installed into the UNCONSCIOUS for it to function!


"think about hurting people and stuff for a while, go and train, shred some folk forget about birds for a bit mate"
Will do man, but hell, it's summer and the womenz are out there showing their assets !!

Many thanks Richie,
Warren

Also read ''Dice Man'' then realise that there is not just one of you, there is a demon of a fighter in you also there is the ultimate woman seducer inside you. basicly it just never gets a turn in command, so let it take command and just let it do as it wants. But you have got to be careful here as if suddenly a woman falls inlove with the a part of you and the old you decided to re-apear then there would be a fuck up of sorts. just try talking random idle chit chat to people, asking directions, asking time. then begin weighing people up as to how they respond, catagorise responces. now understanding the main strains of human character, you can then move onto making idle chit chat with girls who fit the build of not being up their own arse bastards. if its just plain sex your after go to a club find a drunk girl and blag her, avoid the coked up skinny syringe marked girls ofcourse because you want to wake up with a tv in your house. sorry im a bit stoned at the minute odd responce? lol

Thanks Cal ...yeah weed is great isn't it....for relieving pain for ...cancer patients Seriously, in a book on evolutionary biology named "Lucifer Principle"..there was a similiar chapter along the lines of there are all sorts of archetypecal personas within each person...but circumstances, life limit there manisfestation
Warren....