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PostSubject: A Short Piece by Craft Dog of The Dog Brothers   Fri Jan 08, 2010 2:53 pm

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He Had His Art
written by Marc "Crafty Dog" Denny
(c DBInc)

Several years back, a man I had fought at a "Dog Brothers Gathering" went out behind his school and blew his brains out. He was involved in intense law enforcement work and I was told that his marriage was ending. He left two daughters and a separated wife.

He was a part of the extended Inosanto Tribe as well the Dog Brothers tribe and so I mentioned it to Guro Inosanto. He was surprised, and instantly exclaimed "How could he have done that? He had his Art!"

As I tried explaining how perhaps there had been gremlins planted or unleashed by his work, and that perhaps he had cracked as his family was breaking up, Guro seemed to not even care what the reasons were-- he had his Art and why had he not turned to it?

I certainly had no answer in his case, but began to reflect upon the Art and its larger role in life.

At its core level, martial arts is about Love, the belief that you (and those you wish to protect) are worthy of defending from the Aggression of others.

So what is Aggression for?

In DBMA we often look at things through a lens of evolutionary biology-psychology and speak of the three reasons for Aggression: Territory, Hierarchy, and Reproduction. There is much value in this perspective-- but we do not experience our lives in terms of evolution.

We experience our lives as individuals living the time we have. As men, this usually means we are The Protector. The Protector faces a great dichotomy-- he must be ready to connect with his Darkness in order to neutralize or defeat the Darkness of others-- and at the same time be conscious of his own Shadow tricking him into being the Problem instead of the Solution. The greater this dichotomy, the profounder the transformation that results from balancing its halves successfully.

Thus, as a natural person living with our Intelligence and our Animal Natures in service of our Heart, (I refer here to the three corners of the triangle of the DBMA emblem: "Mind, Heart & Balls") we come to "the three H's of Bando: Hurting, Healing, and Harmonizing".

Typically we come to the Art seeking to learn how to Hurt. In the process of learning to do so, we too are hurt, and thus develop the need to Heal ourselves. With this beginning experience of our own mortality, with empathy we learn to see others as no different from us. From there, an Awareness is available which takes us through a portal to different way of seeing things. It is to realize that the darkness we recognize in others, named by Carl Jung "the Shadow", is also within us, and those with whom we conflict the most have a Shadow most like our own --a truly annoying and
challenging thought this is! Yet, by so doing we bring consciousness to our solutions to Aggression. As Jung said in the words opening the first video in our first series, "The idea is not to imagine figures of light, but to
make the darkness conscious."

The Art becomes seen not as a matter of doing Aggression well, but of dealing well with it-which may or may not be a matter of doing it "better" than The Other. In other words, we become increasingly able to engage with others in a Harmonious way, and become increasingly inaccessible to hostile intentions, provocations or neurosis on the part of others.

And the more grounded we are in this space, the clearer and more effective we should be in our will to act when circumstances require-and as surely as no one beats everyone, equally sure it is that there can be times and places beyond one's ability to harmonize. If the flying fickle finger of Fate puts you on Flight 93, it is time to say "Lets Roll."

Those who dedicate their lives to protecting others (soldiers, policemen, prison guards, etc) deal with those with whom efforts at harmonization may well be suicidal. These Protectors face the dichotomy in particularly acute form. I remember a conversation with my good friend and hero, Dogzilla - a federal prison guard. We were speaking as we often do, of his life at work. He runs the kitchen (a truly weapon intense environment) and is on the cell extraction team-particularly high adrenal jobs both. "How do you do it, day after day, keeping alert surrounded by bad men with nothing better to do for the next 20 years than to study you for weakness and opportunity to exploit it? How do you go into a cell to extract a criminally insane man in a psychotic killing state and drag him out without becoming that?" I asked him.

"That's not the hardest part" he answered. "The hardest part is getting in my truck at the end of the day and not going off on all the jerks on the road and going home to my wife and little girl and walking in the door in a state of love."

"So how do you do it?"

"I have my Art. (Those words again!) I go out back and train. I train to be able to move through a room full of men looking to take me down and kill or make me pregnant and get out the door at the far side of the room and make it home to my family. I enter into the space where I am capable of whatever it takes. When I am done tuning up my body, when I am done discharging all the fear and all the unexpressed anger, and I know that I have trained with what Don Juan called 'impeccability', then my workout is done and I am ready for both my job and for my family."

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PostSubject: Re: A Short Piece by Craft Dog of The Dog Brothers   Fri Jan 08, 2010 3:26 pm

Checked out Chiron just now. http://chirontraining.blogspot.com/
Thought I'd add this (also check out the 2 newest posts):

Sunday, January 03, 2010
The Sacred Hunt
Mac made me think this time, with one of his essays. Here's what he made me think:

The best of being human came out in the hunt. Hunting big, dangerous animals some humans taught themselves what comes so naturally to dogs: team work, loyalty, leading and following, self-sacrifice for the good of the pack.

It was also a place where some of the monkey stuff was revealed as untrue- your value as a hunter and a man depended on your heart and skill, not on your ancestors or connections or politics. And it was the place where some of the better primate stuff, the things that made us human, allowed us to dominate the world: tool use and communication and planning.

The hunt was violent and it appeals to certain people. The social bullshit of the normal monkey world is bullshit... and in violence or the hunt, it falls away. In that moment, everything is real and so much outside of that moment feels artificial. So, I think, violence is natural and important to those who are striving towards our learned, recent better nature... and terrifying and unnatural for those who live for the social monkey games.

The monkeys have always needed someone to protect them, but they think (and they may be right) that evolution is going to a purely human/monkey social world where all conflicts are handled by a Monkey Dance in boardrooms or negotiations. I think if it ever does we will lose the best of being human- the loyalty and self-sacrifice and stuff we learned in the hunt.

The thing about coming to love war is that if you value those virtues, war is where you will see them. It may be terrible-- what I saw of it over there was pretty mild, but the violence I have been exposed to had it's terrible aspects-- but it also brings out the absolute best in men. And it brings out the worst in monkeys.

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PostSubject: Re: A Short Piece by Craft Dog of The Dog Brothers   Fri Jan 08, 2010 3:59 pm

Really good stuff, thanks for sharing that... Loved this part "but it also brings out the absolute best in men. And it brings out the worst in monkeys."
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PostSubject: Re: A Short Piece by Craft Dog of The Dog Brothers   Fri Jan 08, 2010 4:58 pm

maija wrote:
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He Had His Art
written by Marc "Crafty Dog" Denny
(c DBInc)

nice piece mate.
when i started reading it, and the impetus to protect the family--i wondered how many lose meaning, or feel sort
of jaded if their family, urm, isn't. i used to get this frustrating feeling as a protector-type. my first wife was
really a huge philanderer, and i would just skip off and work out and drink--actually all i was waiting for was to
formally catch her and start the paperwork, to be honest. but the flip side of having lived a life of literally protecting
my mother is that i got alot of meaning from it--it was my niche from which i drew personal value. so when i first
saw this i wondered how the bloke felt who had just lost those whom he may have felt were in his charge to protect.
sort of "soldier without a job". where's another hat when you need one. perhaps it was his archetype and suddenly
the role was taken away. in that sense he possibly may have had his art but had a personal interpretation of how
that fit into a bigger picture. what he had was his family and a justification for his art. possibly.

having an art is to have something seperate. it is to have another hat, another place where meaning abounds...
at the end of the day, you may use one to benefit the other...but if all one's emotional eggs are in one basket--the
other will just be dropped. as in,

"what's the point of training, i have nothing to train for?"

thinking out loud now. personally i do have my art--selfishly my own, i do that thing that is to try and justify it, make
it family pallatible, occasionally down play it so no ones gets overly sensitive about it. when that happens--from experience,
it becomes more fodder for the power struggles that humans find themselves in.

"oooh, i'm just going to 'ave a wee workout--be right back"...then the sky opens up and i'm beating the imbalances out
of my life in the personifications that are my crash test dummies, looking left and right like some philanderer who's found
a moment to display something that ordinarily is disquised in a suit and glasses--like clark kent [metaphor]. i walk back in and ask a load of questions about everyone else and their collective days and past times, smile inwardly and look forward to the next training. why go to all the trouble, even as things are better now than in my first incarnation [marriage], i have
developed tendencies to protect that which is dear to my [pressure valve] cathartic rituals, medicinal intakes [endorphins],
and dark tendencies [controlled outbursts with measurable gains that have purpose outside of being negative]. isn't that a wee bit of all of us--or maybe just me. Embarassed

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