Hey Guys,
My names Ben.. (Its such a good name theres 2 of us here!)
I am 23 and live in Australia, I am a bouncer on the weekends and have been at this bar for aobut 8 months.. in the past i've done other security like shopping centres, golf clubs.. etc.. even guarding a hole in a wall at a big hardware store!.. but have had very little real experience, grandmas don't cause much trouble
Now that i've been working in a bar I could never go back to working the boring crap security jobs.. I have learnt so much and have been in several confrontations, the place im at isn't hugely violent, but we get things every now and then... the place went off for a few months at one time.. and I was in the middle of a few big brawls having to drag out people bigger than me.. I am a bit solid but quite small compared to most bouncers.. and i've got to test out some things.. some didn't work, some worked well.. some I invented on the spot.. the best and most important learnings i've had are using the fence, positioning myself advantageously and the psychology and communication.. and also learning to deal with the fear.. when I started I would freeze up when I was getting abused or somebody got aggressive.. now I just talk to them, joke around, and if needed I can give it back which has at times caused them to back off.. the guys I work with have commented several times on my change since i've been there..
I haven't had anything really serious.. it seems alot to the normal timid people, but i'm getting used to it.. just a few brawls, punches thrown at me, headbutted when I didn't let a guy in, somebody trying to hit me with a glass and me smashing it on the floor out of his hands, being abused quite alot and called many names, but they arent very creative and always have the same few names usually, and being capsicum sprayed by the police.. fuck that was painful!..
I may type up some of these experiences later on and what I learnt from them..
I also will give Richie a big thanks for his material.. especially the psychology of violence cd's.. they have helped me alot.. the mental work I did with that material has helped me with the fear and to intimidate a guy who is actually an Australian Amateur Boxing Champ and make him back off when he threatened me on the street the day after he was thrown out of the bar I work at.. also the material on the fence and the prefight stuff has helped me alot and made me alot more confident with dealing with confrontation in general.. and helped me stop fights even before they begin..
I say all this to show the effect of what i've learnt from Streetfightsecrets.com material.. i've just been watching Violent Intent dvd1.. and its really got me thinking.. the psychology in it I feel will take me to the next level i've been looking for..
Unfortunately its hard to find good training partners here.. I organized 2 new guys to train 2 days this week and they both didn't show up.. unfortunately the people are all talk.. so its only a little bit of solo training for me, which doesn't motivate me as much, I get sick of it too quick without others to train with..
As for martial arts.. I got a TKD blackbelt when I was 17.. but found out it was useless when I was attacked by 2 guys.. and since then i've trained in a freestyle martial art, in a few traditional arts now and then (found them very lacking) and Close Quarter Combat with Glenn Zwiers, and my biggest learnings were studying with a friend who has been a fighter all his life and done security for years.. he has taught me more than training in any other system.. but he has moved away to another state to work, so my main influence is gone.. now i'm on my own with training.. because all the training in my town is fantasy based

Anyway guys when I get typing I can go on forever.. I have a few things I will post in the next few days, or later tonight, but for now i've been invited over to a girls place and will go and see her so she can entertain me..
-Ben